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Boyfriend drove girl to suicide
The Chemistry of Love
Everything I Know About Dating
The Friend Barometer by Curt Degenhart Judging a match by his mates A friend can tell you a lot about a person
Friends or Lovers
Getting Back Into The Dating Game by Trish McDermott If you are suddenly single after a marriage or a long
Girlfriend Material or Wife Material
How to Chat by Colleen Butler In what resembles a scene from a sci
Is This The One
Life and Love
Looking for Love
Love
LOVE OR LUST
Making A Good First Impression by Trish McDermott There are no second chances at making a spectacular first impression
Making the first move
Molested by a friend
Playing it Safe Online by Linda Alexander
top ten list of flirting tips
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Girlfriend Material or Wife Material?
| According to many of my male friends, men tend to classify women as either
girlfriend material or wife material. |
Girlfriend material
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The girlfriend material is the sort of girl a guy would want to have fun
with. To date, to be with, but not to have a serious relationship that would
lead to marriage. They are the women these guys would seek out when they
plan to enjoy their bachelorhood and are not yet ready for marriage.
Such women are fun to be with. They tend to be glamorous and flirtatious, the
life of the party. Probably the sex pot, hopefully commitment phobic too.
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Wife Material
| These are the women guys would want to get serious with. These are the ones
the men can imagine as the mother of their children. They may be the wallflowers
at parties, but when a guy is ready for commitment, when a guy is looking
towards marriage and setting up a family of his own, these are the women the men
would look for. These tend to be the nice girls and tend to be warm and
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From observations
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An old friend once told me he would never marry his first girlfriend. He'll
have a series of girlfriends, date different girls before settling down with the
final one who suits him best.
I know of 2 sisters, both pleasant looking an attractive, both nice girls.
One of them is regarded among guys as wife material. She is warm, caring, rather
motherly, sensible sort of girl. Not many men chasing her, but those who do are
serious about marriage. Wife Material. The other is very outgoing, fun loving,
part of the in group with a string of men after her. Not all the men after her
plan to marry her. She's fun to be with. Girlfriend material. Both eventually
married.
Being branded girlfriend material doesn't necessarily mean that a girl would
stay single and no men would marry her. She just has to look carefully at the
men. Many would be out for fun. She has to be able to spot who are the guys who
are serious about her.
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The wrong impression
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Don't give guys the wrong impression. If you are looking for a serious
relationship, don't flirt with other guys in the presence of your
boyfriend.
Watch what you wear. The clothes you wear send signals to guys as to the type
of girl you are. Men do judge women by their appearances. Dress in ultra tight,
micromini dresses that bare your shoulders all the time, paired with man eating
high heel shoes and heavy makeup, and you'll come across as a loose girl.
Someone to sleep around with and definitely not a candidate for marriage.
Dress sensibly, dress sexy occasionally if you like, dress practical most of
the time, and you should not come across as a slut.
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