Guys are interested only when you are attached

I have a boyfriend. I have a hurtful past lovelife. currently, 3 guys come up to me....they are the ones that i have liked before but neveer tell them... Now i love my boyfriend and this 3 guys enter my life when im am happy with my boyfriend. i don't know how to reject them as it will lead to broken friendship but if i don't tell them, they might be loving me till i tell the truth and they will get more mad towards me...

Singapore. Age 17

If you are happy with your boyfriend, and he treats you right, maybe you might want to tell them that.

Be frank, but gentle. Tell them how much you treasure their friendship, but are really happy now with your boyfriend. Ask if you could still be friends.

They would probably get upset. But they would probably also get over it and get on with their lives. It is not like they never had a chance when you were still single.

By the way, why weren't they interested when you were single. Why only now? Is it because of their competitive nature? That if some other guy wants you, then maybe there is something about you that they would like too? Was it that they took you for granted up until now?

Guys are competitive by nature. If a girl is attached, it means that other guys want her, so she is worth the chase. If she is attractive and single, guys might think there is something wrong with her. Sad but true according to a guy I talked to about such matters.

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